Theophane....
In other words .... do as I do or you are not doing it right?
I did did not say that Helen was judging, I said she was falling into that realm... I urged caution.
While it is true that we help each other, the approach you take to that help is not the one you advocate. If the road to salvation must be only along the road you deem to be correct then that is not salvation. Just because not everyone demonstrates publicly his or her Orthodox praxis....does not mean there isn't one. Just because someone does not demonstrate what YOU feel to be the proper behavior does not mean that there is none. This is a very hard place to be .... new, primed, full of zeal and then to see others aroound you with what you terms as lacking. BTDT....sorry but it is not good Orthodox praxis to judge (and it is judging) others by what you in your zeal preceive to be the RIGHT way. What if you are wrong?
As to hatred...it is a fine edged sword that is impossible to walk without injury to oneself. Even when you erroneously judge it to be righteous hatred. Humans are simply incapable of it.
As to that whole Soviet thing....Soviet no longer exits, except in the hearts and minds of those who would usurp God's role to punish and revenge.
If you believe in God then I cannot see how you cannot believe that He is with His Church. If you believe in God, then I cannot see how you do not believe that He is guiding it and us.
For myself I will not hate...I will try not to judge and I will hope in God's mercy and guidance.
Katya