Thank you for posting the young people's or 'yuff' website, I will poke about in there when there is more time.
Justin has a point about the grumbles or complaints about both bishops/clergy and lay activity or the lack of it being nothing new. St John Chrysostom certainly also addressed the question of why lay-folk didn't come to church, too.
Sometimes perhaps the question might be, what is our involvement and commitment? As one Chinese friend pointed out years ago, point a finger at another and three point back at you. Not a comfortable thought!
And among the dust are there not gems too. As I prowl around they 'pop' up in different places, a Serbian bishop here, a Greek new calanderist there, a Greek of the Church calendar in another place.
Some would be quick to label this one or that schismatic, but I notice some of the Fathers of the Golden Age were very, very slow to label any with this damning description.
The bishop together with his flock is the church, in its fullness. That is what we are told, and therefore some responsibility lays upon us. And if the bishops tread strange paths or seem to lack zeal, is it that we too wear them down and pressure them. Oh Vladyka, if I have to wear a head-covering forget it, or the services are too long, the icons too severe etc., etc. Humility, obedience and self-knowledge appear to be replaced by establishing one's own status, rights and listening to the god within. On top appears a marked tendency to mix up social agendas with the Faith, politics and an over-identity between church and ethnicity (or the lack of it), or the nation-state. And to cap it all the teaching of the Tradition. Scripture and the Fathers is approached in manner foreign to the spirit of Orthodoxy; and the canons are a weapon to applied anywhere and everywhere except to ourselves, and in an alien way...............
Sometimes I wonder whether it is that we prefer to scapegoat others because in so doing we escape gazing deep within ourselves and, with the help of a priest, using the guidance of Tradition, Scripture, the Fathers and the canons against which to measure our own shortcomings. Did not the saintly Seraphim of Sarov not weep for his enumerable sins?