I did not say it is a "bad" thing. I had tried to say why the Monastics do not eat meat. Not eating meat does not make one passionless. Eating of meat or not is simply a "tool" to help control the passions. I can not say how meat arouses the passions but also oil and dairy will as well. But Monastics eat those. I unfortunately can not give you the names of the Saints that have written these things down, I am not making these things up they are things I have remembered in my own readings of mostly lives of the Saints, but I have read other things as well. What have you read to help you understand what an Orthodox Christian is?
We use what tools we wish to accomplish what we want. I can use a hand saw to cut my 2x4s or I can use a circular saw. One is safer, one is faster. We chose the tools we want to use. You distain the idea of not eating meat, fine however beware do not distain your brother who does not eat meat, just as he is not to distain those that eat meat.
If you want a life of ease, with no problems, doing what ever you want to do. Being an Orthodox Christian is not for you. This is a life wrought with perils of all kind. We do things that every one in their “right” mind will not do, like fast from meat, dairy, and oil from time to time. We bow before Icons of Saints our Saviour and the most Holy Theotokos asking them to pray for us as if we are in their presence, and we know that we are in their presence. I was not born Orthodox Christian, I converted from Protestantism. I memorized portions of the Holy Scripture; I looked for churches that had the Spirit of God and the truth. I found a lot of power hungry guys telling me what I needed to do. Those that had a holy life made sure everyone knew about it. I saw a great deal of pride. I see all this in the Orthodox Church as well, it is not filled with perfect people, but what I found in the Orthodox Church is tools that have worked over the centuries that have help ordinary people, like me, become Saints. Men and women of God that God glorifies with gifts of healing, not the sham I have seen in Protestantism, I have read of healings from “dead” Saints, healings from paintings on wood, (Icons). I have read where rivers have changed there courses because of prayer, didn’t Jesus say that if we had faith we could move mountains. The Orthodox Christian life is one of growing faith, step by step. No I do not have the faith to turn a river or move a mountain, however being in the Orthodox Christian Church I can read the lives of Saints that have done this and learn to imitate them in my own feeble way, and perhaps I may grow in faith enough that I can move mountains. Where is the lives of Protestants that can do this? In the reading of Protestant lives, do we see humility, patience, Godlyness? The Orthodox have 1.000s of lives that show these things, and some even from the 20'th century. This is why I am Orthodox, I found lives that preach rather than lips that talk the good talk. The Holy Scriptures tell us to live for God, not just to say a conversion prayer and "poof" you are saved, I believed this at one time but I saw that the fruit of that was not changed lives, very few lives changed and I saw a great deal of pride, I am trying to overcome the pride I have, the Orthodox Christian Church is teaching me how to do this, somthing I never saw as a Protestant.
Eat meat, but grow in faith. Do not give the person who does not eat meat a hard time because he does not eat meat, even if he gives you a hard time for eating meat. To bear with the reproaches of others is what Jesus did, and is what we should be imitating. Love thy neighbor as thyself.