Hello, all, this is my first post after many weeks as an avid reader.
I am a Catechumen at a parish in the Antiochian Archdiocese, and have learned here that there are many who disparage this Church. Some have even used terms such as "ecumenist", which is, to me akin to a swear word, and even "heretic", which is grounds for a fight. Most of these charges, from what I've gathered, are based on little or nothing.
For instance, some of our clergy shave. Is there a canon or Scripture you can cite to refute this practice? Or is it just a tradition of men?
Also: pews. Where are they forbidden?
My parish, by the way, features a bearded priest and no pews. We stand except for the homily, when we repose on chairs.
The 'ecumenist' charge is the most serious, and I would appreciate any honest argument that might convince me that I am erring in aligning myself with the Antiochians.
I consider myself a traditionalist, and so the above charges were news to me. As a former Baptist, this is not new, but if any of you can persuade me, I will consider jumping jurisdictions.