OOD,
I am sorry, but I do not agree with your reasoning here concerning "not in public . . . "
This list, it seems, includes many inquirers. Some of these inquirers, seemingly extremely ill-informed about almost every issue that is relevant, still want to seem "informed" about everything, and say things that they may undoubtedly later regret.
One of the reasons that I am not happy with current events in the ROCOR is that it seems some people are simply trying to pull one over. Many of the "pro-MP" clergy faction on the various lists engage in hateful and decietful conduct, not only unworthy of clergy, but unworthy of anyone who would call themselves a Christian. One of the so-called "leading clergy" informs us that ecumenism is no longer an issue with the MP, because Metropolitan Kirill (Gundayev) has stated that "ecumenism has met a dead end." This is his proof. Yet, when one takes the trouble to find what Metropolitan Kirill actually said, one finds that Metropolitan Kirill went on to say that, therefore, "ecumenism must be renewed." Either this leading clergyman does not do much research into his "proofs," or he figures that everyone else is stupid, and that they will not bother to check out what he has said (since, oh my- HE said it!), and feels this intellectuial dishonesty is somehow "permitted" to him, for his cause, and for some "greater good." My point? No one wants to feel that they are either considered too stupid to check further, or that someone is trying to pull the wool over their eyes.
As I mentioned, there are many inquirers on this list. I would not want to be responsible for leading an inquirer in a certain direction, after refusing to disclose information that would possibly influence that inquirer, and have him find that once he arrives at the destination through my directions, he feels only that I was trying to pull the wool over his eyes. If things have happened, then they have happened. What-we must be convinced of the absolute total rightness of sometihng before we are told about any possible conflicts, drawbacks, etc.? If we buy a new car, don't we want to know about possible defects BEFORE we buy? Or would we thank the salesman for hiding those defects until AFTER we bought the car?
I can hear the protests already-"becoming Orthodox" or "joining a Church" is not "buying a car." I realize that. It is incalculably more important than buying a car-does anyone not agree? Which, to my way of thinking, makes it incalculably MORE important that one has all the pertinent information beforehand. Once you buy the car, you are stuck. Once you join up, in many ways, you are stuck. Once you join up, you can be told anything and everything, up to and including "oh, we are not allowed to question our bishops or clergy," or the ever popular, "oh, that is not important, it is none of your business, don't worry about it." But it seems to me, once you sign up, you are less likely to get a "full disclosure." If someone feels that they have something to hide-that is strike one as far as I am concerned. If someone cannot admit past indiscretions or explain discrepancies in an atmosphere of honesty-I am simply noit going to bother to inquire further. None of us are perfect; when we all realize that this applies equally to all of us-whether joe schmoe in the back of the church, or bishop _________ in the front of the church, the better off we will all be. I feel that basically asking someone to make such an important decision without all the information is totally unfair as well as uncharitable in the extreme.
As far as the "schoolboys" example or reference-I made my statement; in that statement, I neither addressed Seraphim, nor did I mention Metropolitan Valentin. Therefore, I was very surprised to see that he somehow thought what I said was addressed towards him or someone or something he apparently holds dear. I was further surprised to see that he claimed to know all about what I "really" meant. When one makes such statements, they simply must be backed up. I realize that I may be somewhat argumentative at times-or at least perceived as such. But I saw too much of this kind of thing on the other lists. People are continuously accused of saying things they did not say. Of course, when the accusers are asked to explain, they usually do not, because they cannot. SO, if anyone wants to question what I have said, they are of course free to. But, I am equally free to ask for an explanation myself.
While the subject of explanations has come up, possibly an explanation here would be in order, as I have a question. I read the one statement on here by Bishop Gregory of Denver and Colorado, concerning unity among the True Orthodox. He stated that (correct me if I am wrong . . . ) unity should be declared, or at least explored, between ROAC and the Lamia Synod, which he explained both had an unquestionable canonical basis. This statement seemed to directly contradict that in an interview with Archbishop Chrysostomos II of Athens, in which he stated that the origin of the Lamia Synod lies in the defection of Bishops under him who took exception to an impending investigation of a bishop for homosexuality, and that the separation was eventually over administrative grounds only.
Isn't a separation on administrative grounds simply "schism?" If your ruling bishops or first hierarch are not preaching heresy, can there be a canonically justifiable separation for administrative reasons? If Archbishop Chrysostomos II of Athens is correct in what he stated, then isn't Bishop Gregory of Denver and Colorado totally incorrect in stating that the Lamia Synod has an "unquestionable canonical foundation?" Wasn't Bishop Gregory of Denver and Colorado at one time a member of the church of the Lamia Synod? Why would he leave this church with an "unquestionable canonical foundation" then?
Or is this simply one of those questions that we are not going to deign to approach on this forum? When someone does something-uh-questionable-we do not "harm" them or "help" their enemies if someone asks and are then told about this questionable activity. The harm and the "help" to the enemies comes from the original questionable activity in the first place. As I stated before, and it seems Bogatyr misunderstood my point-why is it that hierarchs of ROCOR are "fair game" on this forum, but other "certain hierarchs" are "off-limits" to any and all criticism and questions? As a matter of fact, Seraphim "chastized" me sort of similarly on another occasion. I asked him this very same question then, and, of course, he did not answer. Nor do I expect an answer from him in this case. That much is clearly expressed in his criticism!
Michael Woerl