This is a HUGE problem in among the World Orthodox. It's also a problem in orthobro culture adjacent to World Orthodoxy.
Old Calendar Zealot has a few good texts up on his YT channel, and then pseudo-orthodoxy like this. It appeals to Modern Man with his soft, conflict averse sensibilities. The niceness which the world exalts as holiness.
First notice there is an implicit assumption that it is an unbaptised infant.* Then it's literally Pelagianism. By Canon 121 of Carthage**, condemned Pelagianism.
http://youtube.com/post/Ugkxvn6YcCeP32c ... JZrNA478YG
Instead of patting ourselves on the back with feel-good stories about babies being automatically saved--baptised or not--we should be praying for their souls. And if they are baptised, we should commemorate them in church.
*Four alternative interpretations:
1) This is only speaking of unbaptised infants. In that case it is Pelagianism.
2) This is only speaking of baptised infants. Papists do not consider baptised infants to be condemned by Original Sin, so is not a sensible interpretation of the meme.
3) This makes no distinction between baptised and unbaptised infants. In that case it is certainly Pelagianism on account of the unbaptised infants.
4) This is alternating between speaking of whichever infants the speaker needs in order to make his based meme fit (straw man argument). I don't think I need to explain why that would be bad.
To top it off, I know of no teaching of the Church which says that all baptised infants are in all cases saints upon death.
**Interpretation:
St. Nicodemus wrote:This passage, I say, cannot be taken to mean anything else than what the catholic Church of the Orthodox has understood and believed it to mean, to wit, that even the newborn infants,
notwithstanding the fact that they have not sinned by reason of any exercise of their own free and independent will, have nevertheless entailed upon themselves the original sin from Adam; wherefore they need to be purified through baptism necessarily from that sin: hence they are truly, and not fictitiously. being baptized for the remission of sins.