BBC - "I How I found out my partner was homosexual"

[Maria]

Many homosexual men and women end up marrying people of the opposite sex. But what is it like for the spouse who eventually finds their marriage breaking down?

Recently we told the stories of homosexual men who had married women. It prompted a strong response from readers who had experienced it from the other side - those whose wives and husbands had come out as homosexual.

"It feels almost homophobic to say anything about them. To me it's not brave to spend 10 or 20 years with someone only to destroy and discard them," says Emma. She found out her husband was homosexual a year ago.

Click this to read the full article: http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-33382824

If a person with SSA is married to a woman who knows about his struggles and who is supporting him in his struggles, there is no lie. Openness in marriage is to be encouraged for we are to struggle together to attain the Kingdom of God no matter what our particular cross in life.

For example, some people have an anger issue. Perhaps it is better for them not to marry rather than strike out in anger and kill their spouse as there appears to be a greater danger to a women who has a spouse with anger issues than one with open SSA issues. Look at Mrs. Petersen who was killed by her husband not too many years ago.

On the other hand, a man or a woman who has hidden his/her SSA is a liar and a thief. A liar because they are dishonest; a thief because they have stolen the love and virginity of another person to provide a cover for their iniquities so they could succeed in society without disgrace.

I had a cousin who married a lesbian. She only married him for his money and took him to the cleaners at their divorce when he was overseas fighting in a war. He was left with nothing but the shirt on his back. Fortunately, they did not have children. They did not even consumate their marriage because he was shipped overseas before they could have a proper honeymoon.

[Barbara]

What is SSA, Maria ?

I missed this, sorry> it's the type of thing I like to rail about - !

There IS a website for women who have discovered their husbands are homosexuals. I can't remember the name of it.
There are A LOT - I mean, really a LOT - of American and other [British, Australian, Anglophone] women shocked to their very cores upon discovering this.

I can't imagine why BBC is quoting people saying "Big deal, don't complain about this". I haven't seen the rest of the article or I might see balanced quotations on the other side of the matter. But BBC has always been notoriously leftist. Also controlled by various factions in the government, or OTHER quarters. It's another propaganda mill. But once in awhile, especially about American failures, it's more open than the US media ! So one can glean things from BBC which help.

No one can imagine how traumatizing that would be for a woman to learn this.
One celebrity example was the Russian emigre movie star, Natalie Wood. She found out about Robert Wagner - who probably did kill her later on when they "got back together" - and kicked him out their Hollywood house. She changed the locks on the doors immediately< Then fell apart sobbing uncontrollably. She was shattered, as are all women except for robot-like ones with no feelings. Natalie's mother, a bit kooky, but at least had going for her that she was a staunch anti-Communist, was a bit smarter about life. The mother, unpleasantly nicknamed "Mud", had repeatedly warned her daughter not to marry the movie actor for this very reason.
So had other friends of Natalie's.

After some years, they did remarry, and then Natalie went to her sad death, likely at his hands. Was this the revenge of a sociopath [Wagner] on the innocent Natalie, who had only wanted to have a wholesome family life ? But had kicked him out, perhaps wounding Wagner's "narcissistic pride" ?

Anyway, I am glad Maria brought this up. I believe we here need to be informed about all these weird developments going on in life today. Priests need to be ready for such revelations in Confession and anyone needs to be alert to the realities.

I bet there already is an epidemic of this. And it will only get worse. Not better.

[Barbara]

I will read the article, too.

Notice how all the MOST important problems, like the gigantic number of unfaithful spouses witnessed by the Ashley Madison
hack, are all barely mentioned anywhere in the mainstream press.
Only a quick look at most, and then on to analyzing the outfit of some evil creature billed as "a celebrity".
The outfit is always uglier than could be imagined. But smoothly described by the mainstream media reporters as " stunning ! "

[Barbara]

I am at the library reading the - icky ! - article.
This part, along with all of it, is shocking ! Why are people being "congratulated" for a such horrible deed ?

"One of the most difficult things for many spouses is watching their former partner being celebrated as brave for coming out, but knowing the damage they've left behind.

It is an experience to which Carol, 43, can relate. With her former husband now active in homosexual rights, she received a message calling him an inspiration and a role model.

"I was disgusted by this, that someone actually considered him to be both of these things when he had spent our entire relationship lying to both himself and myself.

"To me, there is nothing to be proud of - he destroyed our family through his failure to admit that he was in fact homosexual," she explains"

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-33382824

Now there is even apparently a 12 Step group for such sufferers, called "Straight Partners Anonymous".

{I hate that word "partner" anyway...}

Maria was correct to highlight the level of deception that these homosexuals do to their supposed 'families'. The families are only a cover, clearly.
Likely were from the very beginning of the relationship.

The question arises : how much of the population is like this but still in hiding until the time they consider will bring them the greatest attention [negative attention in reality] to acknowledge their awful state of soul ? I fear the numbers are vast due to all media / Illuminati programming in the ethers today everywhere one goes.

[Barbara]

Just for interest's sake, I found the following when looking at a newer article on Ashley Madison's now world famous hack.

"The website's users were worldwide, and there are 79 countries where homosexuality is illegal. In Afghanistan, Iran, Mauritania, Nigeria, Qatar, Saudi Arabia and the United Arab Emirates, the punishment is death."

money.cnn.com/2015/08/19/technology/ashley-madison-search/

79 countries refuse to tolerate this evil vice ! How often does the media let us know that Americans are in the minority rather than the belligerent majority as they wish to imagine on this topic.

And 7 [ or even a few more if one counts the Emirates individually ] countries have the severe punishment which in my opinion is deserved. Try and say that anywhere today !

Oh, no Emma, quoted earlier, is all for elevating them to a godly status, even at the expense of her own happiness.
Homosexuals first, the rest of the population have to be their slaves is what this well-indoctrinated British woman implies.

[Maria]

Sorry I forgot to define some terms:

SSA = Same Sex Attraction

SSM = Same Sex Marriage

Linguistically, the terms homosexual, the "g" word which is censored here by the E Cafe filter, and even the term heterosexual are of a modern construct, so we should not use them as that gives into the modernist agenda, who are creating these euphemisms. We are created male and female to propagate the human race.

The rainbow, which was created by God, is a sign of His loving kindness and mercy. It was not created as a sign of the reprobate.

Incidentally, SSA is being induced in us. Apparently, many Romans and Greeks were also afflicted with SSA due to the lead used in making their extensive aqueduct system which brought lead-contaminated water into their cities and towns. Heavy metal contamination with aluminum, mercury, cadmium, strontium, and lead lead to SSA, homosexuality, and deviate behaviors. In addition, we are being poisoned by our food, cosmetic, jewelry, fillings and appliances used in dentistry, and medicines (vaccines) which contain these metal contaminants and modern plasticides which are used in lining can soups and vegetables, and in the plastic products used to package foods. Have you ever noticed the plastic odor and taste found in those processed bags of cereal and cookies? For this reason, my husband and I refuse to purchase processed foods. We make everything from scratch. The only exception are the organic brown rice cakes from Lundberg in the Sacramento valley of California, organic California applesauce and apple juice, and organic apple juice cider.

Fluoride and halogen (chlorination, bromide, and iodide) contamination of our waters leads to fossilization of the pineal gland as these deadly halogens cross the blood brain barrier and poison our brain. With a fossilized pineal gland, we cannot focus our thoughts or direct our attention to God. The Nazis and the Japanese have all used fluoride to sedate their population and prisoners of war. The US Government has mandated that all cities fluoridate their city waters. We will become zombies, and that is the agenda of TPTB. This is why they created the term ZOMBIES and staged those faked zombie attacks.