Computer, online gaming, and texting addictions

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This topic has been split from the following thread: http://www.euphrosynoscafe.com/forum/vi ... 033#p56360

I read the entire short piece now.
As an aside, what does he imply by this :
"There are women who ignore the needs of their kids because they're too consumed by the Internet."

That women are on facebook, I guess ? Whatever would make them that obsessed, though, that they couldn't stop their
social site to take care of a child ? I can't imagine that. Is it common here in America ?
I wonder about the rest of the world, too ?

About that article, though, like all of his, it has a shallow character which doesn't leave one feeling educated by what he had to say.
Compare his [to ME : meandering] writing with the powerful expression of Bishop Akakije in the Annunciation sermon.
There is NONE.

Abbot Tryphon is kindly but too wishy washy for my taste. I can see why he went for the union indiscriminately.
He gives out usual material, nothing original.

Whereas, Bishop Akakije's words are FIERY and FIERCE, the way they NEED to be !

Lastly, at the risk of offending some, I used to once in a long time look at that morning offering, maybe just for the Saints of the Day.
But i stopped completely when I saw an essay by this Abbot awhile back sounding - to me - way too open to homosexuals for someone in Rocor.
He sounded like maybe SOME in the OCA might. But not even all OCA members : many -- from the look of that one blog Maria mentioned a long time ago are adamantly against them.

To sum up, I feel this Abbot does more harm than good in his 'internet prosetylization efforts'.

Even "petty things" bother me [his latest essay]. For example, it SEEMS that to "sell" gatherings organized at that Monastery, he entices people with mention of some kind of Lenten Chocolate Cake. I predict he won't attract very discerning souls when having to resort to appeal to the generic love of sugar and chocolate. Only very average souls.
Sugar and chocolate are both antithetical to the ascetic life. They attract DEMONS. So it's a poor advertisement for a spiritual retreat !

Well, there is a place for everyone, but one can see WHY this Abbot would have been railing against our True Orthodox Churches,
though I didn't happen to see that essay. I couldn't stand to stay any longer on that site !

P.S.: He talked about his talk on "Fasting according to the Early Fathers" as being able to be generated by internet research alone.
But to me, picking up a REAL BOOK is infinitely more useful and satisfying ! One can thumb through other pages easily or let it fall open to a
particular page which maybe is what God wishes us to see first and foremost, rather than what WE imagine we need to look up.

A cold, digitized, one-dimensional computer screen can not remotely substitute for thumbing through a solid BOOK. That's my opinion.
So again, his glowing praise of the internet for research is not borne out, at least for many of us.

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Barbara wrote:

  • I read the entire short piece now.
    As an aside, what does he imply by this :
    "There are women who ignore the needs of their kids because they're too consumed by the Internet."

    That women are on facebook, I guess ? Whatever would make them that obsessed, though, that they couldn't stop their
    social site to take care of a child ? I can't imagine that. Is it common here in America ?
    I wonder about the rest of the world, too ?

Unfortunately, there have been recent stories in the media about men and women, and boys and girls who have died because they do not eat, sleep, or take care of themselves or the ones they love while they are surfing online or playing online games. Internet and online gaming can become a life-threatening addiction.

When I was a graduate student and was teaching English, Reading Comprehension, and Essay Composition to high school juniors and seniors who had failed to pass the California State Exit Exam, there were certain students who were addicted to texting. These 15 to 18 year olds could not keep their hands off the keys of their cells and smart phones. Do not ask me why the director at the local community college allowed them to text and surf during our classes. One 16 year old student would fake being sick and claim to have an upset stomach just so he could go to the bathroom and text his girlfriend. It did not matter that his parents had paid for this expensive course.

These Internet and texting addicts probably will not be reached by evangelical online efforts unless they hit rock bottom and in desperation are willing to seek help.

Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy on me a sinner.

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...people who have DIED ?? I can't IMAGINE they let themselves go like that.
I guess it's another form of self-destruction. Testifies perhaps to the nature of this type of addiction, then : a demon surreptitiously takes hold
of the internet abuser. Then it pushes them to stop taking care of their normal lives, causing a spiral of chaos.
Then I guess as the final stage, it gets them to stop eating. I had never heard of this !
I could guess that they might become unhealthy, living on fritos instead of getting a nutritious meal several times a day.
But starving themselves to death because of a pathetic computer game ??

I am glad you explained this horrible societal picture, Maria ! I don't have any contact with youth, at all, so I have no clue what is going on in some sectors of the younger
generations.

I did hear, though, that men of all ages can get hooked on these "games". I can hardly imagine.
Are men more the participants in computer games, or women are equally avid enthusiasts, if you happen to have any idea ?

And then the compulsive texting kids ... wow. Too bad they weren't listening to your excellent lessons, I am sure.

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As a further thought, i doubt that any of these are going to land in Orthodox Christianity !
Surely due to the demon-control over their minds, they would not be free to investigate this faith.

If anything at all, perhaps the demon pulling their strings would let them go to ... EST or some false teaching. Maybe L Ron Hubbard...
don't you agree ?

So I would say that casting a net out into the internet seas hoping to snare this type of soul is a waste of time.

Too many of those who "hit rock bottom" in ANY problem area are either atheist or agnostic because they were so obsessed with
their pet addiction, could be any type, as they abound unfortunately here.

Only a sophisticated soul is going to research carefully and arrive at True Orthodoxy. We have to realize this.
Someone ALERT, not zoned out on some vain pursuit like the computer games.

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