I'm pleased that you could apologize, Joasia [what does that name mean actually?] I never expected that you would [written with a smile]. I was merely trying to say that I had a comment in mind that day all ready to add to the thread. But I found your outburst there that had been posted first! So I wanted to distinguish that I was going to write about another topic and was not remotely referring to your attack on Mt Carmel.
You have made good points in the past - I have read a few - and I'm sure you are pious. But how about a stringent reduction diet on the vitriol?! We should all try to cooperate together. Clearly nobody agrees with everybody else on here 100%; but why not address all other Forum commentators with kindness, giving them the benefit of the doubt or perhaps even a chance to express themselves more clearly before launching a broadside attack on their words ?
Not all TOC people are professional writers. So some phrases may be poorly expressed. Give the person time to make their point further. If someone's really crazy, that's for the moderators to adjudicate.
I like divergences of opinion, myself. I think it's refreshing to hear other points of view such as that by the unusual poster Incognito. I think people shouldn't be so defensive that they can't hear objections voiced without flying off the handle, as many did in reply to the provocative challenges he made. I call for his reinstatement!
But we must realize that the number of TOC-sympathizers is few. The vast majority are oppressively jeering at the rest of those who don't accept them. Obviously the Junior Chapter of the MP Fan Club hopes by keeping up a constant campaign of peer pressure to dissolve the strong principled approach of TOC people separately, weak link by weak link. The Fan Club cheers the MP with pom-poms and so much fanfare that one knows they don't even believe it fully themselves. Hence the missionary zeal to affirm themselves by picking up any stray defectors from the TOC groups. Of course MP-ROCOR broadcasts those fish they catch, but never mention the many who have fled their death grip ---! It reminds me of the time of Henry 8th, when most people in England went along with his insane ideas whether they agreed or not. But the few who resisted were the most valuable people in the land, such as St Thomas More, who refused to be lured by all the cajoling, carrots and sticks applied much as the MP-ROCOR had done to those souls who held out against the union.
So all of us must treat each other on the basis of respect. We can objectively examine points of difference within the framework of appreciating the points upon which we are in agreement. Such as universal veneration for the Blessed Metropolitan Philaret. No one here would ever scoff at him the way the MP-ROCOR does [see remarks of Laurus, which precisely expressed the absolutely insane mocking of the devil for the great light of Metropolitan Philaret's soul.]