Has anyone read the letter from the nuns of Lesna convent? I think they made a better case than this letter. I don't have the letter with me, but basically, their point was that women's monastic representation would have been especially important. There are far more women monastics than men, and it was mostly women monastics (M. Agapia, etc.) at the center of the conflict w/ the MP in the Holy Land. The letter was read at the sobor, and many people agreed (according to my priest, who was there).
Also, this was not a council of Bishops or clergy. It was supposed to be representatives of all the church! (There were representatives of every possible Russian Orthodox organization that could get in there.)
I don't like it when people act as though men are more rational than women. Who starts most wars? Were Hitler and Stalin men?
Edit: The bottom line is that this was not a decision-making body. The point was to hear the opinions of representatives from all parts of the church, but the decision is ultimately up to the Bishops.