Dear George,
I agree with you in general that we tend to "destroy" other people with labels and such, and the word schism is very destructive. I am particularly sensitive about this in situations where a "schism" occurs because of administrative/personality differences, such as in the case of the many Floro-Acacian divisions, and the recent Matthewite history.
In many of these cases, the splintering groups actually believe and confess the same ecclesiology, but make a big deal about who the "real" Archbishop is, who changed the synod address without the consent of the other bishops, and so on. Bascially, stupid things in my opinion.
On the other hand, when does one call a spade a spade? As we all know (Matthewite or Cyprianite), there was liturgical harmony for centuries.(It has always been the mindset of the Church to have liturgical oneness.) There were multiple anathemas and condemnations (13 councils) against the calendar innovation. The line was drawn and the State Church crossed the line in violation of all these councils and destroyed liturgical unity. I'm not trying to be hardcore about this, but it seems rather easy to see this as a schism. It wasn't just the 1935 OC bishops who declared this as schism. The church had 5 centuries of walling this off. If we don't call the Calendar innovation a schism (or worse -- an instrument of heresey/ecumenism/freemasonry) then how will those in the Schism know where the truth is?
Regarding the salvation of those souls in the NC churches...don't we all acknowledge that God judges us all? Being OC is not a guarantee to salvation.
Nectarios