Tessa:
My prayers for you and your family. Please care care of yourself, all this stress is not good for you and your baby. I believe that your father has been given a special gift.....the oportunity to atone for some of his sins here on this earth and to prepare his soul for his end. Not many are given this gift. I know that perhaps now he does not see it, but maybe God will enlighten him. I would suggest serving a moleban for him in this time of need. And for the safe arrival of your child.
Milla
p.s. When are you due?