Dear in Christ Symeon,
Hey, hang in there. You'll find a parish. I don't think Christ expects us to know "scientifically" all the details and issues about this or that jurisdiction. Just avoid the places where there is chaos and destructive people. At some point you need to be worshipping and not "thinking" about "who said what", or "who did what". In a way you're correct when you say you have to get your nose out of things. In some ways that is good advise for all of us.
BTW, you had originally written concerns about all the westerners who were peasants and had no control over what the Kings did in becoming Roman Catholics and Anglicans. Met. Philaret wrote an article concerning the Protestants and RC's and what happens with them. In essence, God will judge them differently than the Orthodox.
Keep up the struggle, because indeed the struggle you're going through is something we will all go through in these days.
in Christ,
Nectarios