OrthodoxyOrDeath wrote:Joasia,
If you accuse the Fathers of St. Markellas of judging you, then why do you see fit to judge them?
I understand the Church can be hard sometimes, but the fanatic and rigid Holy Fathers set the examples. I know enough of the fathers at St. Markella's and I know of many stories on how they work with the neighborhood youth and the homeless. I also know how visitors, dulled by so many years of new-calendarism, sometimes come and are scandalized that they have to wear a headscarf , cannot wear pants, or cannot accept that they have to confess, ect, ect.
I have to completely agree with this too. I have known the fathers there too and seen their constant acts of love in the neighborhood. They have been nothing but kind and welcoming to me. I don't really agree with their whole ''no Grace'' thing and think they are wrong about a number of things, perhaps even unrealisticly too strict with modern man (as I know they follow the canons there to the T). I have also heard some pretty crazy ideas from a monk there such as an opposition to putting murderers is jail because they are carrying out God's will. But as individuals and Christians, they are superb and I could only hope to be anything like them.
Nicholas (savva)