Hi OOD,
Yes, I see what you are saying. Sometimes it is hard to balance the fine line between good fun and hurting someone's feelings.
Something you might appreciate after the beard comment is that in our Religious Ed class we had a very nice priest come in who in the midst of a conversation said as an aside that he didn't think a beard made a priest (I have to agree with him that the two issues are not directly related but of course this doesn't mean I think that a priest should not have a beard).
So he hands out a book for eighth graders and get this--only one out of many priests had a beard in their explaining the sacraments issue. In fact, I should scan in the picture of the one priest--he even has on hair gel! he looks more like a fashion model than a priest!
anastasios