Justin,
There is an official opinion of the Russian Church Abroad towards the Moscow Patriarchate. That position has been spelled out in the official synod statements I have provided, not just in personal opinion which is open to interpretation. The official documents of the Russian Church Abroad consistently state that the Church Abroad does not consider the Moscow Patriarchate to be graceless. That's all there is to it. Continuing this dialogue is useless if no one here will address that simple fact. The official documents say this, without question! It is grlaringly obvious:
Quick examples of these types of documents:
We believe and confess that in those churches of the Patriarchate of Moscow where the priest fervently believes and sincerely prays, showing himself to be not only a "minister of the cult", but also a good shepherd who loves his sheep, to those who approach him with faith, the grace of salvation is accessible in the mysteries.
And:
"The situation of the Church in Russia is without precedent, and no norms can be prescribed by any one of us separately."Despite the uncompromisingness of our stand against the betrayal of "Sergianism," we make no "definitions" about it; in particular, our bishops have refused to make any statement that the Moscow Patriarchate is "without grace" and "fallen away" from Orthodoxy."
There is no room for interpreting these documents in any other way than what their very clearly articulated point is. You can provide quotes from private letters not intended from you, and the opinion of one bishop, but these do nothing to override the consistent official position.