CGW,
The problem can be stated in very simple words. Where is truth? Where Jesus is. And where is Jesus? In the church. How do you know when you've found the church?
Well, that is where the problem lies.
The Church is right before you in all Her glory, and you continue to ask "Where is the Church". The Church is not intended as a power structure to be arbitrarily ruled by a clerical elite as if it were a business enterprise. The Church is the Body of Christ and the priesthood is not something which belongs to the priest, but to Christ. The saints of the Church, from St. John Chrysostom in the fourth century to St. John of Kronstadt in the twentieth, are clear on this point: it is not the bishop or priest who celebrates the Liturgy, but Christ Himself who celebrates His own Mysteries. The bishop and the priest are only the tools.
So "where is Truth"?
When Plate asked this of Jesus, "What is Truth", what was the answer? Jesus’ answer is silence, because he is the one High Priest, the Truth, and in his presence Pilate is face to face with that which he refuses to accept. Is there any greater irony than that?
Silence was Pilates answer because he was not really asking; rather he was saying cynically that Truth does not exist. Therefore, Jesus, like the Church, who will never constrain men to submit, gave him nothing in return for His lack of faith.
And you, "CGW", don't seem to be here as an inquirer about what Holy Orthodoxy is, as you have been told and your questions remain the same - they are not questions of discovery, but of ambivalence. You are here to parade your doubt and hold it up high so that everyone can share and marvel at your ideas.
Your trouble seems to be that you do not accept anything unquestioned, and are proud of it. You consider all values relative, even those which you accept, because you really don't believe in One Church, One Truth; your position is that of a well-disposed agnostic who is willing to agree with whatever is told to you, but will let you understand that, of course, there is no way of proving anything that is said, and therefore, it is inevitably meaningless.
So you too will receive the same as Pilate.