What went wrong with the OCA, I think, was that they didn't allow an American Church to grow up naturally, but rather attempted to take a Church that was half filled with Greek Catholic converts, and half filled with Russians, to slap the label "autocephalous" on it, and then claim that it was now Americanizing. A few short decades later some already make the arrogant claim that one need not worry about forming an American Church, and that everyone should just join the OCA. I was hoping for something growing up a bit more naturally--from parish to parish--and when the opportunity presented itself it would become more independent. For instance, let's say that there are 5 parishes in ROCOR with such an "American" leaning (not because they are trying to "Americanize" ROCOR, but because that's just how these local Churches "grew up"); if ROCOR were to become part of a unified Russian Church again, perhaps these "American" Churches could become ROCOR's mission in America, only this time being American in culture, not Russian in culture and American only geographically. And perhaps other traditonalist groups could find their way into such a mission. Not a likely scenario, but it's one that comes to mind that illustrates what I'm thinking.
How many North American Orthodox Saints do we have? How many could we name? We really should know things like that better. How many of us have said an akathist to a N. American saint? Been to a service to one? Venerated the relics of one? I think that this is the first step in any process towards an American Church. We can't know where to go if we lose touch with where we've been.