The best thing to do is just read the Scripture, pray, read the Fathers, etc. Too many times we try to enter into spiritual combat when we haven't even learnt how to properly use our weapons and armor. Oh sure, we've seen other people use them, so we think, "Hey, how hard could it be? Swing your sword. Hold up your shield. And so forth." Not suprisingly, such an approach often times leaves people seriously (spiritually) injured, either leaving Orthodoxy altogether, becoming very confused and a ball of nerves, becoming hateful and judgmental, etc. Now, certainly not all people end up this way... but those who don't end up that way are the exceptions, and not the rule.
I've read countless people say that they converted to Orthodoxy by "reading the Fathers," and I'm sure that they have to some extent (I certainly make no claim to a great knowledge of the Fathers). But I'll be frank with you, I've never spoken with anyone online who sounded like they've actually sat down and read the Fathers a couple hours a day for years on end. Put simply, we quote the Fathers, we say we live by the Fathers, but few of us have actually put the time into actually reading them or meditating on how to put their beliefs into effect in our daily lives. Supposing that you needed a new transmission, would you trust an "auto mechanic" who had never worked on cars before, but who reassured you that he'd read a couple books and his Father had given him a few tips? Basically that's what you have for the most part on the net: people who have heard a few things and read a few books, giving advice on topics that it would take years and years of study and meditation to understand all the dynamics of. Fr. Seraphim Rose called such people (like me, I admit it) a Lucy. He said the Democracy was government by Lucy's. Well, the Orthodox internet is theology by Lucy's.
Just read, pray, fast, give alms, all the stuff you read about doing and see other people doing. Trust God to guide, not people on the internet (or in "real life" for that matter). Of course, to be consistent you would have to disregard what I just said! 
...but do as you think best, and may God guide you.
Justin