I do not know where to post this message (prayer life or praxis).
It seems to me that some behaviors in church are really pietist i.e emotionnal and exagerated. Observing many people, I was surprised by many things. So I would like to know if such things are correct or allowed, if they come from a real Orthodox tradition.
1° In my church, I see many people crossing themselves after each petition (OK) and then systematically make a metany. This metany seems to me a little exxagerated. It seems to me that the moment where you can do metanies are strictly defined.
For instance, I was taught not to do metanies during the Trisagion, only the priest does.
2° In my church, during the Paraclesis on Sunday evening (so liturgically speaking we can admit we are on Monday), everybody kneels.
3° The same during the "Our Father" which is quite bizarre to me because when Jesus tauhgt his Apostles this prayer he said "When YOU STAND"
4° Other thing : prosternation during a liturgy (not on Sunday) are they allowed? Indeed, it seems to me every liturgy is linked with Resurrection; so we should not kneel whatever day (exceptec for the Presantified)
The kneeling seems to me very catholic (catholic before Paul VI's reform). If you enter a traditinnalist catholic church to observe, you see evrybody kneeling. You do not know why. i wonder if this practice would have not contamined Russia due to Catholic influence via Ukrain (like the words for the absolution in the Russian church or the interrogation for the marriage in the Russian church or even some really pietist -ugly- Russian icons and the Russian chant too ). Then, the Russians would have transmitted this to otherOrthodox peoples.
As regards metanies, I do not know...
I think a proper praxis can be found in monasteries (I hope). For instance, in Athos, the novice were immediately taught not to kneel on Sunday...
Thank you in advance... I am in a mixed church with 2 parishes (one Russian another Georgian)